Welcome to My World!

Hey Y'all,

Welcome to "About The Baby Daddy...."  This is the place you want to come to unload your drama with that other mama and get some real help with some of those real issues.  This blog is about REAL TALK -straight up.  I know you FEEL stuff..but you might just be tryin' to do the right thing.  This is not the mama-bashing spot; nor is it the 'I am man- worship me' spot either.   I just think that one of the biggest challenges for the men in this lifestyle is to be viewed as honest, legit and just as emotionally challenged by a new baby as women are.  It just looks different on us.  That's just one of the many things that people may not know About The Baby Daddy.  I'm looking for all of you brothers out there who know what I'm talkin' about to come forward and let the sisters know About The Baby Daddy - who is he? where's he from? what does his life look like? Is he really unemployed and destitute or shiftless?  What is REALLY true?

 And for the ladies....I'd like you to talk about what YOU believe and what you DON'T ( and why?) - the guys need to hear it and get sober.  Each side will develop the listening skills that are needed when emotions are high and spirituality is LOWWWWW.   So yes, about that spiritual thing...  we will talk about what the bible says in a really practical way; in this way, we can come to grips with the fact that in the midst of all of these conflicts and challenges, more than anything, we need the ability to step back and see who the enemy is NOT - each other.  For the sake of our children, parenting -like marriage - is for life and we would do well to avail ourselves of the tools that will get us through the long haul.

 So spread the word!   We here and we're ready!  Welcome to my world!

Peace,

V